So clearly, as you may have gathered from the title... I have an issue with a wanna-betch I've been friends with this girl for a few years, but only recently did we get close, which I'm now REALLY regretting, because she's so far off from being a betch that it's not even funny. Well... she's 200 something lbs so I guess it's kind of funny.
I swear to you all, she wants to be me. She tries harder than any boyfriend I've ever had has to get in good with my family, any brand I like, she automatically likes... and she does it to my sisters and even brother too! She buys things I say I like before I get a chance to... like we're talking next day. She switches music taste and "hates" a certain genre one day if I don't feel like listening to it that day. Even the things I eat and drink, when I go on gym kicks, when I change my hair... she even will buy clothes in my size!! Now this girl should be in 2-3x clothing, picture that. She used to do this but in a much less extreme version with every friend she'd be around that particular day, just dressing like them... but she's adopted my entire life now, and it's scary.
I know it's all out of jealousy. I mean obviously, right? But it's at the point now where I'm really noticing how she puts me down to make herself feel better about seriously everything and that's not okay. Having confidence is one thing, but when you're bestie starts getting downright cruel, enough is enough. I totally get betches being bitches, but a friend is a friend and when something good is happening for someone you're close to in their life, you should be happy for them... or at least fake it, am I right?! All I get are insults and negative comments or underhanded compliments. She's so passive aggressive and I hate it. She questions me and berates me like she's an evil, jealous, psycho boyfriend. She does it in front of my family and to my friends, which is the worst, but to strangers too - like if I get a compliment - she practically screams something out to counteract it and like, a reason for why they shouldn't say that and they all just kind of stare at her... it's embarrassing. No one wants to be around her, including me now, so I'm slowly distancing myself.
It's just so shitty because she tries to flip the situation around and make it seem like I'm following her every move. She "forgets" or won't even remember me declaring that I liked something or said I was gonna do something, and she also believes she's not a follower! I can't even count the number of times those words have spilled out of her mouth... she's the biggest wanna-betch I know, and the saddest part is that now I constantly feel like I'm in competition with a fat chick for dibs on MY OWN LIFE. Knowing she exists is actually eating away at me, and I feel like I'm falling into her (massive) shadow, which is just that of a fatter, uglier, unfunny version of myself.
If any of you betches actually read this far, then I'm both disappointed in you and thankful... now my question is, what the fuck do I do about this life sucking thing before I lose my sanity? Or just give me your thoughts on this stupid shit, and also, if anybody's ever dealt with something like this, I'd love to hear about it because I'm seriously just at a loss here.