After three months of recovering from a tumultuous relationship I finally found another pro I especially enjoyed to fuck around with (literally and figuratively). The only issue is that he (Not So Bro) and my ex have been progressively getting closer. I mean changing their relationship status on Facebook to "It's complicated" with one another, close. Simultaneously as that friendship grew, Not So Bro and I also began to form a relationship that was intimate, physically and emotionally. My ex has no idea, and going to a small University seeing them walk around together makes it quite awkward. Not So Bro and I have talked about the situation, both having no regrets but still feeling a little guilty. My ex and I met Not So Bro around the same time so it isn't as shady as it may seem. However, when we were hooking up I heard Not So Bro had been distancing himself from my ex and his group of friends. I have started to notice my ex and him are literally joint by the hip now. At the same time we haven't hooked up in a while because we've both been away. He still messages me everyday and it's obvious we have feelings for each other, and it's more than just a hook up. I am not bitter nor seeking revenge on my ex, I just want to know what is the next step I should take. Usually I am able to assess boy situations but this one is just a little extra complicated.