How do I become the most popular girl in school? I definitely was, but now I feel I'm slipping. I don't want any crap about how "a betch is the most popular girl in school" I just want answers and advice. Be as detailed as you can!
Instead of making fun of you (which is my natural response to a post like this), I’ll actually try to help you out since you’re clearly in middle school and I don’t want to be a bitch to a 9 year old.
DO NOT TRY TO BE POPULAR.
Literally though, don’t try to be friends with the popular kids because they are going to sense that you’re just trying to be friends with them because they’re popular and they’ll think that you’re lame/desperate. Instead, just work on finding a group of girl and boy besties who are fun and who you like. Then, once you’ve got a really close group of friends who are girls and a bunch of guys who are in love with you, you can rage and have fun and live an awesome life. You don’t need to be the most popular girl in school or be friends with the cheerleaders because if you’re not already it won’t happen (or they’ll just let you hang out with them and make you their bitch). And, if you just have fun with your friends and don’t give a shit about all that high school/middle school bullshit, trust me, everyone will be jealous of you and you’ll have such a good life that you won’t even care if people are jealous of you.
point is: you said that “a betch is the most popular girl in school”, and that’s NOT ALWAYS TRUE. A betch doesn’t give a shit who’s the most popular girl in school, because her friends and her life is so exciting that she doesn’t really care what people who aren’t her friends think about her.
so, if you have friends, start partying more with them or start making more guy friends. If you don’t have friends, find some girls who are pretty but not that popular and who are in the same boat as you. Trust me, if you stop caring so much, you’ll have a lot more fun.
good advice. i also hope that you are in middle school or something because thats the only reason for not having figured this out already. just be yourself and don’t worry about what other people think.
The world would really be a better place if they assigned bigs/littles in middle and secondary school. I know you can recognize that you shouldn’t worry about that shit in theory, but it’s hard not to in practice. Just have fun and know that it’s college that will really define the rest of your life (really! I have friends who admit that they were orchestra nerds in high school (I was a choir nerd) and no one in college cares…helps if your, like, really pretty), and make sure you get decent grades so you can go to a college where you can party/make friends with the future leaders of America.
I wasn’t popular in middle school either, but IDGAF. I was class clown artsy comedienne and did my own thing. I had a core group of friends who loved me and I loved them. Now, almost 15 years later all the guys I run into at bars at kicking themselves for not giving me the time of day and it’s great when I acknowledge them long enough to make them realize they made a big mistake back then. I developed a personality, so when I finally grew into my looks I now have the full package. Most of the popular girls are now just used used up slutted up skanks with nothing interesting to say or do. Stop caring so much what others think. And hon, wait a few more years before going on this website. If you can’t even get into PG-13 movies, you shouldn’t be on an NC17 website.
This post is like walking into a yacht club with an I Heart Obama shirt on.. I think you’re going to get crap.
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Posted on — ReplyInstead of making fun of you (which is my natural response to a post like this), I’ll actually try to help you out since you’re clearly in middle school and I don’t want to be a bitch to a 9 year old.
DO NOT TRY TO BE POPULAR.
Literally though, don’t try to be friends with the popular kids because they are going to sense that you’re just trying to be friends with them because they’re popular and they’ll think that you’re lame/desperate. Instead, just work on finding a group of girl and boy besties who are fun and who you like. Then, once you’ve got a really close group of friends who are girls and a bunch of guys who are in love with you, you can rage and have fun and live an awesome life. You don’t need to be the most popular girl in school or be friends with the cheerleaders because if you’re not already it won’t happen (or they’ll just let you hang out with them and make you their bitch). And, if you just have fun with your friends and don’t give a shit about all that high school/middle school bullshit, trust me, everyone will be jealous of you and you’ll have such a good life that you won’t even care if people are jealous of you.
Posted on — Replypoint is: you said that “a betch is the most popular girl in school”, and that’s NOT ALWAYS TRUE. A betch doesn’t give a shit who’s the most popular girl in school, because her friends and her life is so exciting that she doesn’t really care what people who aren’t her friends think about her.
so, if you have friends, start partying more with them or start making more guy friends. If you don’t have friends, find some girls who are pretty but not that popular and who are in the same boat as you. Trust me, if you stop caring so much, you’ll have a lot more fun.
good advice. i also hope that you are in middle school or something because thats the only reason for not having figured this out already. just be yourself and don’t worry about what other people think.
Posted on — ReplyThe world would really be a better place if they assigned bigs/littles in middle and secondary school. I know you can recognize that you shouldn’t worry about that shit in theory, but it’s hard not to in practice. Just have fun and know that it’s college that will really define the rest of your life (really! I have friends who admit that they were orchestra nerds in high school (I was a choir nerd) and no one in college cares…helps if your, like, really pretty), and make sure you get decent grades so you can go to a college where you can party/make friends with the future leaders of America.
Posted on — ReplyI wasn’t popular in middle school either, but IDGAF. I was class clown artsy comedienne and did my own thing. I had a core group of friends who loved me and I loved them. Now, almost 15 years later all the guys I run into at bars at kicking themselves for not giving me the time of day and it’s great when I acknowledge them long enough to make them realize they made a big mistake back then. I developed a personality, so when I finally grew into my looks I now have the full package. Most of the popular girls are now just used used up slutted up skanks with nothing interesting to say or do. Stop caring so much what others think. And hon, wait a few more years before going on this website. If you can’t even get into PG-13 movies, you shouldn’t be on an NC17 website.
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