BETCHES LOVE THIS

in middle school

stop caring about what they think and do w/e batshit stuff makes you happy. If the only thing that makes you happy is imperssing them then yes, you are a dud. And you always will be. sorry but it really is that simple, and if you can’t comprehend that or embrace, then again, another recipe for being an eternal dud.

you’re in middle school I’m sure every other girl feels exactly the same way…wait a couple years kid

Well, just relax. If they suggest something that might get you into trouble, so what? And if you have to think of the ideas, think of something risky, but not law breaking. But if it really doesn’t feel good, then don’t even give a fuck about the girls who don’t like you. For the one girl who is important to you that seems to dislike you, then maybe find out why she does. If it’s over something stupid, you might want to reconsider your friends.

Middle school huh? Those are some tough years kiddo, for everyone. It’s helpful to remember that most of your group aren’t actually thinking about anything but themselves most of the time, even if they’re giving you shit, it’s probs just to deflect attention away from something they’re embarrassed about. Really just stop TTH. Do whatever makes you happy, and whatever you think is fun. Really, whenever anything seems to suck just try to have as much fun with it if you can. Life is always gonna be filled with fucked up situations, you’re either gonna be like super nice-girl about them (gag) or you’re gonna detach, and talk shit. I’d recommend the latter.

Good luck.

Middle school is the worst. Guaranteed those girls feel the exact same way as you, though. And the girls who are “important” now will probably not be in the coming years. Do whatever makes you happy, even if it’s not the ‘coolest’ things and even if it’s not with the ‘coolest’ people - you’ll figure it out.