I'm gonna sound so fucking stupid writing this, but I really have a problem standing up for myself. I hate confrontation, I hate having to call people out, and if someone says something fucked up to me, I'm more likely to ignore it and walk away rather than stand there, fire back and show them that I take no shit like I want to. I wouldn't consider myself a weak person, and things really don't get to me very easy at all, but I certainly don't wanna be perceived as a weak person and I know the way I let people get away with things makes me out to look like that.
Also, how does one balace out the necessary bitchy tone needed on a day to day basis with being polite when it's necessary? I just got a job (shoot me...) and there's another pretty bitch there who I can tell is already trying to compete with me. Despite that, I figured maybe we would click since we seemed similar in a few respects, but NOPE! She's a bigger, show off-y bitch than I've ever seen before, and she expected me to take on all of her duties for the day because I was new. That shit I WILL NOT take, and she's definitely one of the many people I feel like I need to work on this to be able to deal with.
So, betches, I figured who better to ask for help with all of this than you guys? I know I sound totally lame, but I really need some help.